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Living in Luxury is Not a Pipe Dream



Living in Luxury!

Observing the lifestyles of the rich and famous is a fun pastime for many of us. We dream of how cool it would be to live in the lap of luxury as they do. Fancy cars, premium restaurants, exotic vacations, mansions . what a life they lead! But, for most people, this dream is quickly followed by the thought not for me. And often some sort of condemnation of the rich follows to soothe our wounded ego because of how we’re not able to achieve what they have. 

Several serious fallacies surround the idea that what the rich and famous have cannot be achieved by most other persons. The ideas of scarcity and the moral wrongness of wealth are two of the primary culprits perpetuating the idea that a life of luxury is a pipe dream. The universe is abundantly overflowing with all that is needed for everyone it is individual thinking and feeling that directs the flow. If you believe in lack, lack is what you will get. If you believe in the infinite abundance and love of the universe, that is what you’ll get. The idea of the moral wrongness of having or acquiring great wealth and luxury is absurd in the face of a universe of unending supply. 

Dare to think outside of fear-based, limited supply ideas. You can live a life of luxury. There is no wrong in achieving a comfortable and abundant life. Your life is your responsibility. Your neighbor’s life is your neighbor’s responsibility. This is what makes giving to others and gratitude for what you have so rich. Giving to others is not an obligation, it is a choice motivated by love. Gratitude for what you have and what you receive will grow what you receive. Living in luxury can be yours if you choose it. By allowing yourself to enjoy that luxury without guilt, you are simultaneously allowing others the same right. In other words, you are loving others as you love yourself.


Remedy for being Paranoid

Self Leadership is one of the potentials you can use in your everyday routine to improve your own life and to protect yourself from potential harm as well. It’s incredibly essential if you aspire to be an influential leader. 

 Paranoia in a nutshell is an attitude. Every one of us has that voice that echoes in our head that sort of perceives and senses certain happenings that something was about to occur and it probably did or maybe it didn’t. According to those experiences, we   might get paranoid due to the angle from where we looked at the whole matter. Well, now an ordinary optimist says the glass is half full whereas the pessimist says the glass is half empty; and there could be another third party that could be Super Optimist who might say that the glass is full (with water and air) and it’s about to overflow like a fountain.

That intuition isn’t a supernatural element but a gut feeling we have. So we have to reform that instinct within and be an inverse paranoid human being to improve our life quality by learning to trust ourselves and know we have the power within us to make good decisions because simply the more you look for the good in things, the sooner and more often it will show up.

To wrap things up, in order to be a successful person or leader you have to start seeing problems as opportunities – which is unfortunately not hereditary -for that’s the single way to boost your self confidence and self esteem to feel way far empowered.