Category Archives: Leadership

Living in Luxury is Not a Pipe Dream



Living in Luxury!

Observing the lifestyles of the rich and famous is a fun pastime for many of us. We dream of how cool it would be to live in the lap of luxury as they do. Fancy cars, premium restaurants, exotic vacations, mansions . what a life they lead! But, for most people, this dream is quickly followed by the thought not for me. And often some sort of condemnation of the rich follows to soothe our wounded ego because of how we’re not able to achieve what they have. 

Several serious fallacies surround the idea that what the rich and famous have cannot be achieved by most other persons. The ideas of scarcity and the moral wrongness of wealth are two of the primary culprits perpetuating the idea that a life of luxury is a pipe dream. The universe is abundantly overflowing with all that is needed for everyone it is individual thinking and feeling that directs the flow. If you believe in lack, lack is what you will get. If you believe in the infinite abundance and love of the universe, that is what you’ll get. The idea of the moral wrongness of having or acquiring great wealth and luxury is absurd in the face of a universe of unending supply. 

Dare to think outside of fear-based, limited supply ideas. You can live a life of luxury. There is no wrong in achieving a comfortable and abundant life. Your life is your responsibility. Your neighbor’s life is your neighbor’s responsibility. This is what makes giving to others and gratitude for what you have so rich. Giving to others is not an obligation, it is a choice motivated by love. Gratitude for what you have and what you receive will grow what you receive. Living in luxury can be yours if you choose it. By allowing yourself to enjoy that luxury without guilt, you are simultaneously allowing others the same right. In other words, you are loving others as you love yourself.


Visualizing Success from Within

Visualizing your success.

Visualizing success or goals is a very powerful and magnetic aspect to attain your wishes and goals. These goals need to be primarily crystal clear on your mindset after being determined. There are two types of visualizing.

The outer imaginary visualization is where you just visualize in mental pictures. Imagining is a good way to picture your dreams and create a state of mind to condition the subconscious to encourage you focus on what you want. It’s more like closing your eyes to see yourself achieving a goal and possessing things you wish for. It certainly has some benefits but it’s definitely not very effective. It’s more of a shortcut to cut corners to attain your goals.

On the other hand, visualizing from within is the most powerful, effective and fastest way to manifest results. When you visualize from within you put yourself and your whole being in a platform where you can firsthand experience being the main actor in the role and seeing the world through your own eyes looking at your surroundings as if you already are what you want to be.  

For bests results, rehearse this role by visualizing daily. This way, your subconscious will adopt and accept it and it will become your natural state of being because it’s all about making transition through transaction.

Just having a mental visual picture will get you nowhere. Therefore it’s very crucial to BE the actor and feel the feeling and emotion from within your own consciousness because you already ARE that person.



In a Nutshell, Seize the Moment

Sorrow gives way to delight and vice versa. Just like sunset makes room for darkness and after a heavy rain there’s a rainbow. The interaction between these sequential elements is what life is all about.

Life is like a rollercoaster, when you head upwards everything seems to be bright and promising and as soon as you head down, it feels like you wish for your coffin to come embrace you and put an end to your miserable life.
When everything goes according to plan, you feel your soul is crowned with a halo but when doors slam in your face, you just sink in despondency and melancholy.

Seizing the moment is the only powerful sort of action you can do after coming to this conclusion that nothing lasts forever and that’s just a figment of your imagination. Personally speaking, I don’t even believe that the let downs I face are meant to be fierce and drastic.

My mindset is kind of on the loose because I set it to firmly believe that everything happens for a Good reason, it’s only us that decide whether to stand with a spoon or a bucket aside life’s overflowing river. To get this much more clearly, I believe that the Almighty God answers in three ways. Yes because you deserve it, No because you deserve better, or Not yet because the best is yet to come.

I know it’s easy said than done because it’s a human nature to get upset and sad after you get knocked down, but we need to learn the art of getting up after getting knocked down and forget history and aim higher.

Remedy for being Paranoid

Self Leadership is one of the potentials you can use in your everyday routine to improve your own life and to protect yourself from potential harm as well. It’s incredibly essential if you aspire to be an influential leader. 

 Paranoia in a nutshell is an attitude. Every one of us has that voice that echoes in our head that sort of perceives and senses certain happenings that something was about to occur and it probably did or maybe it didn’t. According to those experiences, we   might get paranoid due to the angle from where we looked at the whole matter. Well, now an ordinary optimist says the glass is half full whereas the pessimist says the glass is half empty; and there could be another third party that could be Super Optimist who might say that the glass is full (with water and air) and it’s about to overflow like a fountain.

That intuition isn’t a supernatural element but a gut feeling we have. So we have to reform that instinct within and be an inverse paranoid human being to improve our life quality by learning to trust ourselves and know we have the power within us to make good decisions because simply the more you look for the good in things, the sooner and more often it will show up.

To wrap things up, in order to be a successful person or leader you have to start seeing problems as opportunities – which is unfortunately not hereditary -for that’s the single way to boost your self confidence and self esteem to feel way far empowered.